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CHECK-IN EXERCISE – THE 3 SECRET KEYS TO DOMINATION

This quiz serves a supplemental resource for The Dominatrix Archetypes®: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom book. It's best to take this quiz after reading the corresponding section in Chapter 5 of the book.

Let’s check in on where you stand on your current skill level in domination. How well do you implement the 3 Secret Keys into your domination now? Rate yourself on a scale from 0-5, 0 being—not at all, 5 being—absolutely. Once you’ve rated yourself for each statement, you will see what your score means.

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

1. I remove vanilla, casual language from my speech when I dominate (“Alright, now what I need you to do is, I need you to get on your knees in front of me…” is vanilla and casual; “On your knees in front of me—NOW” is dominant and to the point)

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

2. I remove polite language from my domination language (please, thank you, you’re welcome, etc.)

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

3. I use commands rather than requests (“Go get me a glass of water,” rather than “Can you please get me a glass of water?”)

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

4. I explain the “why” behind my commands to my subs

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

5. I do not pander to my sub’s liking (I don’t say, “Do you like that?”)

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

6. I assert my will and force with subs using domination language

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Category: DOMINATION ENERGY

7. I sound like I mean what I say when I dominate (even if it is in fantasy)

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Category: DOMINATION ENERGY

8. I vary my voice inflection and my tone when I dominate

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Category: DOMINATION ENERGY

9. I speak with feeling, passion, and drama when I dominate

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Category: DOMINATION ENERGY

10. I know how to throw “Domme vibes” at my sub

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Category: DOMINATION LANGUAGE

11. I can put a sub into mental subspace by just using domination language

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