Mistress Natasha, pro Domme in Phoenix, AZ
BEFORE:
“When I was doing sessions before, I wasn’t domming, I was just being a top, because I didn’t know any of the psychology of domination, and I had no idea what to say. I was basically just doing these activities to people, and I wasn’t getting anything from it. It was just very two-dimensional, very flat, didn’t have any substance…because it lacked the psychology, and it lacked connection. It wasn’t engaging the client, and it wasn’t engaging my mind, or my energy.”
AFTER:
“The Dominatrix Archetypes has been my bible of the psychology behind domination. It’s been my secret key to unlocking my powers as an effective Domme. Every single session that I go into, the Archetypes guide me with every aspect of it, from the client interview—finding out what type of domination they are into—to building the scene structure. It’s really been like a blueprint for the session, so it’s easily laid out for me. There are a lot of moving parts to it, and it’s very much an art and a learned skill. But the Archetypes really break it down where it just makes so much sense.”
Mistress Hellebore, lifestyle Domme in Chattanooga, TN
BEFORE:
“There was the part that felt like the real me—a very strong, assertive woman, who knew what she wanted—but had been suppressed for 20 years. And then there was this other part that had been trained to be submissive. I’m a Southern woman, so part of that birthright is that you’re born to serve a man. I was constantly struggling with these two sides of myself who were fighting each other. One is saying, ‘You’re supposed to really enjoy this job [as a wife and mother] and bend to your husband’s wishes.’ And this other side of me, it’s like, ‘I know how to run my life. These people just need to get out of the way.’ So nothing was flowing.
AFTER:
“Utilizing The Dominatrix Archetypes has impacted all parts of my life. It’s made me a better boss within my business. It’s made me a more effective communicator with my family. It’s helped me to own myself. I stopped living this dual life, and I started being very honest with people. Like owning, ‘This is who I am. This is how I feel. This is what this new me is like.’ I was able to develop this authentic person that I’ve always wanted to bring to the world. This practice delivered on my quest to rediscover my identity. It was very transformational for me. I uncovered facets of myself that exceeded my expectations. I have a new sense of confidence and joy by embracing my Domme persona, and I am the strong woman I never imagined I could be.”
Mistress Elena, pro Domme in Lisbon, Portugal
BEFORE:
“My domination experience started at a local kink club in Lisbon, where I played with lifestyle slaves for fun. I was absolutely unsatisfied by what I was doing in spite of the fact that I was really preparing—reading up on domination before the sessions. I didn’t know if I was doing it right, and I made a lot of mistakes. At some point, a guy asked me to do a professional domination session with him, for a tribute. That session was really awful. I did not have a good negotiation. I did not actually understand what his main core kink was. The session was not what he wanted.”
AFTER:
“When I dominate, The Dominatrix Archetypes are subconscious now, but I can bring them out consciously too, when I want to. I can see immediately when subs are in subspace, then my words and emotions are just flowing out. I can see this mixture of the Archetypes and how they reveal themselves sometimes. It’s just amazing. I feel so, so powerful. It feels like the energies of the Archetypes are channeling through me when I’m in session. I get a lot of feedback from my clients about how grateful they are to me. My clients are usually travelers, so they have seen Dommes from all over the world. They always tell me that I am very well-trained, I’m very experienced, and I’m very professional. I hear this all the time.”
Mistress Mystique, lifestyle Domme in Salt Lake City, UT
BEFORE:
“For about 15 years, on and off, I was doing amateur stuff, like tying up my husband with handcuffs and nylons and having sex, stuff like that. I didn’t know what I was doing. I had no idea that D/s really existed or what that was. I didn’t understand how people liked that stuff being done to them, even though my husband was one of them. Then I heard Mistress Damiana talk about how this is healing for them…and I remember sitting on that for a long time. That’s when I realized that there is something more to this that is really deep.”
AFTER:
“When I began to use The Dominatrix Archetypes in our D/s, it changed everything to a whole new level. It gave me an exact map of how to break him successfully—in a good way. Before the Archetypes, my impression of a Dominatrix was all Authoritarian—all strict, all high impact all the time. I didn’t realize that in order to get total fulfillment in the sub, and in the Domme, you have to have all the Archetypes.
I need all of my Archetypes to get true submission from my slave. I’m not talking about a submission in a scene, I’m talking in a lifestyle 24/7 Domme/slave relationship. Our D/s relationship is an ongoing scene.”